Saturday, February 27, 2010

I just took a preg test, clear blue and it was postive , help?

okay the test was postive i went in the room and told my boyfriend and he put on his shoes and left , said i was annoying him and said he was going for a walk ...


I followed him , and he said go home and h started followin me and said he doesn't wanna be with me..


im pregnant by him , and thats hard enough my mom don't want a baby in her house im like 5weeks tops by now i hope the test is wrong now im freaking out i was happy untill he fliped what should i do my mom hates me becase of my bf . helpI just took a preg test, clear blue and it was postive , help?
Okay now, just talk to him, he was just being a guy, just go to his house and talk to him. Really please go talk to him.I just took a preg test, clear blue and it was postive , help?
I think you should go to the doctor ang make 100%sure you are pregnant and then have a one to one conversation with your boyfriend and talk about BOTH of Yall 's situation, because if he likes it or not its his situations too
The reason we are designed to have sex is to make babies. Yes, there's a pleasure side to it, but essentially, if the man and the woman involved (or guy and girl, as the case may be) are not prepared to be dealing with babies, they should not be having sex. (And pregnancy tests don't give a positive when you're not pregnant, although they can say you're not pregnant when you are.)





Right now, he could be in shock. Give him some time. If he does actually dump you, then good riddance--you can't have someone like that full-time in your life. (Your mom was smart if this is what he ends up doing--he wasn't with you to be with you, but because you gave him pleasure.) But then you have a decision to make: are you going to keep this baby or give it up for adoption? There are lots of couples out there, incapable of having a baby, who would love to raise your child. If you want to keep it, do you have the means to do so? You live with your mom, from the sounds of it; are you able to move out? You've got time before this baby comes to work out details and what to do. Check with Christian or Catholic crisis pregnancy centres--they will not offer abortion as an option (I read one of your other answers that said you had had an abortion and regretted it) and may be able to direct you to places that can help out, either raising the baby yourself or adoption.
If you're not ready to raise a kid, putting it up for adoption may be an answer. There are plenty of good families out there that can't have a kid that would love to raise yours. It's a hard choice, but you have to do what's best for the baby. You could always raise it by yourself if you feel up for that challenge.
Well, if he leaves he'll not be there for her to hate. Tell your Mom and hope she'll help. I bet you she'll be alot more supportive than he will be, and you are definately gonna need some help. My Mom and I went from a sucky relationship to a wonderful one after my first child's birth because I needed her advice and words of wisdom. Being a new parent can be scary and its nice to have someone you can call to get advice from and comfort your fears that you aren't doing everything perfect.
Its natural for a woman to be able to take care of her baby alone .. Thats why we have eveything needed to take care of a baby, Ex. Breasts. =] thats why WE have the babies, Not the males. Were strong .. Just keep your head up .. thigns will get better.
Take a deep breathe, and say ';wooshaaa';.


I can tell you that your boyfriend is suck. Keep try with him, if it's not work, you have to learn to be a single parent. Trust me, it's not a big deal. Don't worry about that, and DO NOT abort your baby.
tell him if he didnt want this to happen he should of used a condom. Let him know that you didnt do this all by yourself!!





I raised my first daughter by my self and I was only 15. It was hard but I managed to do it.


your going to have to do what you feel is right for you.
be a strong woman and raise this baby on your own
Help?





You should be the happiest girl/woman. You are going to have a wonderful baby, sure your parents will help you. Make him pay, he just wanted to use you.
Your bf maybe is just scared. Let him sleep on it for a couple of days and see if he comes around, if not, then you become a stronger person and provide this child the best life you can (with his child support check) Talk to your mom, she may be disappointed at first for your decision to have sex, but she will be your best support system.
Im sure that your mum doesnt hate you, she probably just needs time to think about it. Its probably a big shock to her aswell just give her some time.


How old are you and your boyfriend? He may just need time to get his head around it also its a huge thing especialy when your very young.


Try talking to your mum about it all, and your boyfriend also seperatly he may just need time to think.

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